You know what’s fun? Things I used to enjoy. Sometimes we leave an interest behind because we desperately need change. But coming back to an old passion is both refreshing and comforting.
A Love Note to Amateurishness
Doing things “just for fun” opens us up to new kinds of satisfaction, joy and enthusiasm. Here’s what happened when I dipped my toe into a world that’s typically reserved for experts.
Your Wins Exist. Celebrate Them!
Having goals is great, but if achievement only means moving on to the next task…what’s the point? Celebrating your wins—big and small—can lead to a more joyful and productive life.
What to Do When Trying New Things is No Longer Exciting
When learning and having novel experiences is key to your identity, losing your gusto for the new can be a harsh blow. Here’s how to get back on track with what brings you joy.
Dear Puttylike: What Do I Do with My Life?!
A reader with a great career realizes they’re not where they want to be. The trouble is, it’s not clear what their next move should be… Neil offers tips for cultivating authentic self-knowledge and accepting the limiting nature of choice.
Anatomy of A Failed Month
Not every month can be great, but last month was a total disaster. Taking stock of what went wrong, and how I could respond differently next time, was a surprisingly powerful exercise.
Can Niceness Change the World?
Everyone’s talking about the softness of Ted Lasso these days. He’s a brand new kind of TV protagonist. But can kindness prevail in the real world? Multipotentialite entrepreneur and “gentle rebel” Andy Mort thinks so.
Have I Really Missed My Chance?
Someone will always arrive at a new concept—or get onto a new platform—before you. But being late to the party doesn’t necessarily mean there’s no point in trying.
Can I Be Happy With My Mediocre Life?
Statistically speaking, most human beings are more or less average in most ways. In fact, it’s impossible for us all to be above average! So why does having a nice, normal life sometimes feel so painful?
