Judging the success or failure of a project almost exclusively by the end results can’t reflect the totality of our experiences or the diversity of our goals. It also doesn’t account for social and structural inequalities. So, when is a failure not a failure?
“Are You Living Up to Your Full Potential?” Transforming the Burden of Representation into a Gift
This question of living up to our potential comes for everyone, but it hits especially hard for those of us who live with our own and others’ expectations that we represent the communities we’re a part of at the highest possible level. Here are three steps to transform that burden into a gift.
A Spring Equinox Ritual for Inviting Transformation
In many traditions, the Spring Equinox is the new year—a time for new beginnings and digging deep to set intentions for the immediate future. If you’re looking to make big moves in your life, here’s a gentle ritual that will have you taking action in no time.
How To Make a Living as a Multipotentialite
We want to do everything! But can that really lead to a lucrative and fulfilling career? Here’s my overview of the four ways multipotentialites commonly structure their work.
Puttyhustle 101: Building a Foundation for your Future Business
So you find yourself standing on the cusp of what might become your brand new business or side-hustle. You have an idea of what you want to do, and you’re excited about doing it! There’s just that small matter of figuring out exactly how to execute your idea…
How I Let Go of Perfection and Embraced My Good-Enough Job
I accumulated side hustles until my head spun. I searched for my “true love” job—the one that would fulfill all of my multipotentialite needs—and found it. But the pursuit of perfection left me exhuasted. Leaving it behind changed my life.
A Multipotentialite-Multipotentialite Dating Story
Common wisdom about romance doesn’t always apply to multipotentialites—especially when two of us are dating each other. Here’s what happened to me when I dipped my toe into dating a fellow multipotentialite, and how we negotiated everything that came after.
How to Make Healthy Comparisons—and Why You Should Try It
Not comparing ourselves to others is basically impossible. But a happy, fulfilled, and successful multipotentialite life is a unique thing—it’s hard to compare it against another life! Here’s how to reframe comparison altogether.
3 Reasons You Should Say No More Often
Creating the life you want involves a lot of saying no—sometimes in ways that feel counterintuitive. Here’s how I rejected giving influential people too much power over my life, cut out obligations that I no longer found important, and retooled systems that just weren’t working anymore.
