My partner does not believe in astrology. If someone starts a conversation with, “I’m a Gemini rising. What’s your ascendant?,” he’ll tune out, or roll his eyes and find any excuse to walk away. Deeply logical, woo-woo things, confound him. Like, Why does this grown person still believe in tooth fairies?
Me, on the other hand? When someone reveals to me that, along with their board certified psychotherapist, they also consult a Reiki practitioner, a tarot reader, an astrologist, a psychic, or a sound healer, I know I’m in good company.
With the exception of sound therapy and popular psychology, I’m not literate in any of these modalities. I remain curious, however, and ready to entertain.
Why woo?
The way my multipotentiality manifests itself, I’m constantly in dialogue with my desire to do all the things and the feeling of having finite resources in focus, time, energy, and moolah. When these clashes of desire vs reserves meet, I often seek advice from traditional mental health experts, but more and more I find myself drawn to intuitive guides. In these alternative spaces, I feel, there is less judgment about the way my peculiar multipod brain works.
Recently, I noticed that my cup was full and running over. My life either required a larger glass or I needed to drink faster or it was time to turn off the tap. What was most frustrating was that this situation was not new to me, it’s a pattern and a puzzle I often find myself trying to solve. I didn’t need help with this newest challenge alone. I needed to look more closely at my entire life to understand why I keep arriving at familiar crossroads. What are my life’s motifs? How are my thoughts and beliefs orchestrated? How am I designed?
To help me sort this all out, I consulted an astrologist-in-training as well as an applied mythology coach.
What is astrology?
Astrology is a language that seeks to interpret human patterns, purpose, and direction through understanding and observing the movements of planets, stars, the sun, and the moon. People from all over the world have practiced various forms of astrology and it dates back to at least the 2nd millennium BCE. Western astrology is organized according to the zodiac, a belt-like region of the sky divided into twelve signs.
Like many of us, I’ve known my sun sign “Cancer the Crab” since before I could remember. But I hadn’t had my natal chart explained to me until I sat down with an old friend who had just entered astrology school—yes, astrology schools are a thing!
The natal chart is basically a map of where the planets sit at the time of your birth. These coordinates, astrologers believe, influence how you’re likely to operate in the world.
I explained to my buddy, before the reading, that while I am not a believer, I do find myself regularly looking up my horoscope—a paradox I’m now willing to confront.
My natal chart, like everyone else’s, is round and divided into twelve houses. It contained a bunch of lines, shapes, and planetary symbols that my friend needed to explain a few times, before I got it, sort of. It’s complicated, which is why astrology schools exist.
The meaning in the stars
What I walked away with is that my seventh house that rules intimate relationships is solid. My friend explains, “Jupiter is the most beneficial planet, especially in the day chart, it brings joy and abundance and expansion and good fortune to wherever you find it. Jupiter is in your House of Committed Partnerships so this means good things for your love life!”
I used to feel guilty whenever I looked at my horoscope, because I only ever paid attention to the career reading, never my love reading. Now, I know that was only because it wasn’t necessary. My love life has been pretty solid. My professional life, on the other hand…
Like a good multipod, I’ve tangoed with a number of careers. For me, but not for every multipotentialite, this has meant that my finances have suffered. My chart also revealed something interesting. Uranus is in my Second House, the house associated with wealth and resources. Uranus is about “innovation, surprises, and doing things differently” according to my reader friend. Because Uranus “squares” Mercury: the planet that rules my career, this creates a challenging relationship between my career and my financial life. I discovered that my unique way of handling business may be jarring to others. Since work-life habits have an impact on income, this is an area that my friend says will get easier for me over time, but could require extra effort throughout my entire life—yikes!
What is applied mythology?
This modality looks at primordial narratives, those old stories that are foundational to human existence. Applied mythology demonstrates how these myths relate to contemporary life.
I’m a visual storyteller, so looking into how my personal biography might tie back to and be influenced by archetypal characters and their exploits, piqued my interest. Plus, I’ve noticed that wherever I travel, I arrive in spaces where goddesses held a lot of prestige, during those pre-patriarchal days of old. I often wondered what these figures wanted to say.
Cue, Wade Gasque, a writer, filmmaker, and thespian who offers an intuitive service he named “Heeding the Call”. Here’s how he describes it:
“When we look at our life’s journey through a mythopoeic lens, we begin to notice patterns, symbols and synchronicities pointing to a singular something or other within each of us – a kind of story we’ve been playing out (consciously or unconsciously) since day one.
The Greeks called this our daimon. The Romans, our genius.
Soul’s purpose, highest potential, whatever the name, it is our calling. It is that which we were born to do. And whether we’re in touch with it or not, it’s always there, trying to make itself known, trying to be expressed through us.”
Wade encourages creatives to tap into applied mythology, especially when they’re at a crossroads—a place I find my multipotentialite self often.
Meeting my ancestral goddesses
I met with Wade over two, three-hour sessions.
Each meeting began with a grounding ritual—a candle lit, a guided meditation inviting full presence and participation. I was surprised by how seriously Wade took our time together. It forced me to regard my own life’s lore with more gravitas and pay attention to what my greater guides needed me to know.
During the first session, I was very candid about past traumas. Incidents I hadn’t brought up to anyone, in decades, came tumbling out of my mouth. Like the childhood game Operation, all of the major chapters of my life, to the present date, were laid out on the table. If there was an area that needed further examination, I was given homework, between the two sessions, to delve a little deeper, and advised to “remain receptive”, try to avoid leaping into any action or falling into self-criticism.
Through these applied mythology sessions, I was able to name, out loud, the things that make this human journey enjoyable for me. And watch those things show up to accept or reject.
I was able to see how important it is to remember, acknowledge, and honor my ancestral goddesses and heed the lessons their stories still evoke, even in these modern times.
Wade gave me so much to dig into, I’ll be returning to his notes and wise counsel again.
So many modalities, so little time…
I love how there are so many approaches to deeply exploring a life. These self-examinations also help me with my main gig, which involves understanding human behavior and motivations in order to create storied characters, so I’ll keep diving in. Human Design is my next planned foray. I don’t think I’ll get on the 9-month waiting list for the most popular psychic in the city where I live, but I might undergo hypnosis to try Past Life Regression therapy. Every time I opt into a new-woo-thang, I become more of a believer. Why not?
Your turn
Have you ever visited a psychic? Or had someone interpret tarot? Have you had a look into your natal chart? Or tapped into your own mythologies? If so, what did you discover about your multipotential? Let me know in the comments.
Nela says
I’m leaning more toward skeptical, but I did dabble in woo here and there.
I had a whole phase as an amateur astrologer in my early 20s, reading my own and friends’ natal charts. I too have a Uranus in 2nd house, with some challenging and some positive aspects, so I took from that that anything stable and predictable is not my jam… 🙂 Money comes in in huge lumps, and then nothing for several months. I’m accustomed to it now, and use the lean months to work on personal projects more.
I no longer pay any attention to transits, or even refer to my chart for any decisions, because it just adds another level of complexity that I really don’t need.
I’ve had a client who postponed the launch of her website several times because she’s received ideal launch dates from her astrologer. She still hasn’t launched it 3 years later!
One of my besties is a Tarot reader, and she made a career reading for me when I was starting my business. From what I can remember, a lot of it turned out just the way she told me it would.
Malika Ali Harding says
Hey Nela — I appreciate that you take what you need and leave the rest behind. I’m still learning how to lean into the thin months. Would love suggestions on how to focus on meaningful projects even when funds are low. Ooh, and it’s always handy to have a friend who can really read and interpret Tarot.
Lynette Vetsch says
In the many years I have been on this earth, I have had too many experiences not to believe in “woo”. I am also a Reiki Master Practitioner and Teacher . Reiki took my life from being in a deep funk to being upbeat, trusting in the Universe and being thankful for all that I have. I have had experiences with my Spirit Team which includes: Angels, Spirit Guides, Ascended Masters and Fairies. Like I said, hard not to believe with the experiences I have had. (and yes all without the aids of drugs/alcohol and other medicines of any sort!)
I do readings with Oracle cards and know that my main sign is Scorpio. I have listen to the signs that are sent from above, through nature and natural “synchronicities” as they are all around. There really are no coincidences. I would love to learn more about my chart and why I keep repeating patterns in my financial house I DO NOT like.
Malika Ali Harding says
Hi Lynette — I love that reiki helped pull you out of a funk. And I”m glad you’re tapped into all of this light! My family’s favorite oracle cards are “The Bad Girl Oracle” by illustrator Katie Skelly. I wonder if you would appreciate her deck too?
Catherine says
The two Woo things I do are:
1. Emotional Freedom Technique/ Tapping. I scoffed at the idea that tapping on acupressure points could alter my mood, my physical health…or anything else. But. It. Works. To my surprise I can tap on a difficult/ sad/ scary memory or event, and within a few hours, I’ve completely forgotten it, or processed it the way I need to. Please try this.
2. Energy Profiling. This divides people into 4 types, based on the elements of Fire, Water, Earth, Air. We are all made up of all these 4, but one element is dominant in each of us. Within those types there are numerous other sub types, so don’t get worried about being put in a box. Each type runs on a different frequency of energy and this affects everything we do. e.g. type 1 is bright and animated; type 2 is soft and subtle; type 3 is rich and dynamic; type 4 is bold and striking. This has helped me understand myself and my life deeply. This is another Woo thing I recommend because it makes you realise that you are not ‘wrong’, you are just running on a different type of energy to what society thinks you should be. e.g. women are supposed to be type 1 or 2, men are supposed to be type 3 or 4. But we don’t all fit that stereotype.
I believe in Woo. There are more things in the world than can be explained by science e.g. intuition, love, and Woo can help you.
Malika Ali Harding says
Thank you Catherine! I will try tapping and look into my energy profile. I love all the different ways that exist for diving deeper into ourselves and understanding one another a little bit better.
Kasia says
I read the article with a lot of curiosity and joy. Seeing that I am not the only one who is playing with “spiritual” (involving spirits) explanations of life. I feel we shouldn’t need to explain ourselves to the whole world for doing so, big part of humanity will not understand or accept it, but it can become our own little internal compass.
Then I looked at who wrote it.
Malika is a very powerful, feminine spirit of gnawa culture that I am dwelling in. It has been developing in Morocco since 14 century and originated of a mix of traditions from subsaharian areas and islam. It is practically a possession trance culture where practitioners are helped with music, rhythm, smells and colors to embody powerful spirits in front of intimate community gathering. Malika is one of them. She likes green, and pink clothes and golden accessories. Embodies abondance (richness) and joy of life.
Maybe you will find it interesting 😉
Bug hug
Malika Ali Harding says
Kasia! I really appreciate you sharing this. I had an experience with Gnawa in Chefchaouen, Morocco, which I also wrote about on my own blog. I saw the spirits of my ancestors very vividly and was moved to tears. I didn’t know that Malika was/is a djinn? Everywhere I travel, I feel the presence of feminine goddesses, deities, and spirits desiring to be acknowledged. Thank you for shedding light!!
Kasia says
I have found your story on the blog. The song they would sing to you is one of the parts of the ritual, and they are all evoking some spirits, in this case “Lalla Malika”. What does it actually mean for the gnawa confrery and practitioners to evoke a spirit, jnun, they call it, is another story. They can invite in this way some of their African ancestors, saintly personnas of Islam or animistic powers of nature, so it gets quite wide 😉
I am happy to get connected, I might travel. Back to Morocco soon. I miss it a lot.
Malika Ali Harding says
Awesome Kasia — I appreciate you taking the time to find the Moroccan blog post and for sharing your wisdom around Gnawa. I too miss Maroc!!
Maddie says
I think its disappointing that we even have to call astrology “woo”. How can anything so old, so ancestral, not have some basis in truth? I have these conversations with my husband periodically and he is dismissive. In my technical profession no-one takes it seriously – so I normally go back to consulting the astro website by myself. As I know my birth time I have a full natal chart and find its planetary alignments a good way of explaining subtle emotions and moods I would not otherwise understand. I also use it as a secret tool to understand friends and colleagues! I don’t however have much time for “pick-n-mix” spirituality / esoterica, so angel guides, numerology etc are not for me, though during a troubled time in my life I did dabble in the Tarot, which I quite enjoyed. Life is full of paradox and the sooner more of us embrace that the better!
Malika Ali Harding says
Very true Maddie — these ancient human practices deserve respect. Of course, multipotentialites appreciate this variety!
Emilie Wapnick says
Hey Maddie,
I feel this way, too. To me, astrology feels different from divination and intuitive practices because it’s based on the physical position of the planets. It’s measurable. It’s math. And like you mentioned, it’s been part of our culture since ancient Babylonia. But I think context matters and in this piece, Malika speaks very fondly of “woo.” She kind of reclaims it and celebrates it, so I don’t mind her referring to astrology in that way. Also, the modern day popularity of astrology is very much linked to the new age movement of the 1970s, so it makes sense that a lot of folks associate astro with other “woo” practices. Anyway, regardless of the terminology (and without implying anything negative about other forms of occult/magic that I don’t know much about), I think astrology deserves a lot of respect. And p.s. I may or may not be the astrologer-in-training referred to in this article. 😉
Maddie says
Hi Emilie, good luck with your astrologer training and thanks for the context!